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A Third of Brits Have Family Feuds over a Loved Ones Will

A Third of Brits Have Family Feuds over a Loved Ones Will

A third of Brits have suspected other family members of taking more than was rightfully left to them in the Will following the passing of a loved one; research revealed today.

As well as grieving, millions of families end up locked in bitter disputes over property, family heirlooms and the distribution of the estate.

The research also revealed that a quarter those studied had witnessed other family member or friends being more attentive to a sick or frail relative and suspected they were doing this because they knew it might benefit them financially once the person passed.

The study of 2,000 adults by Wills Solicitors at Slater and Gordon revealed one in five deaths now creates acrimony between families but despite this less than one a three have made a Will and even less have spoken with their loved ones about what will happen with their assets after their death.

Slater and Gordon Lawyer said, ’The death of a loved one is always a difficult time so it is a shame that so many families end up sustaining further emotional trauma by becoming embroiled into disputes over a Will.

“Money, property and items of sentimental value are all argued over far too frequently and these disputes have resulted in many families being torn apart with relatives ruining relationships forever.

 ‘What makes these situations so tragic is that this heartache can easily be avoided by making sure all loved ones have an up-to-date Will which leaves everyone in no doubt as to their final wishes.”

One in four people have disagreed with how a Will has been allocated with it being a common complaint that certain family members were given more than they ‘deserved’. More than half the study felt that if you do more for a person in their life you become entitled to more in their Will.

The most common things that caused arguments between relatives were about money though some admitted to bickering over who kept the urn, where the ashes were scattered and the details of the funeral arrangements.

The research also revealed that many families end up arguing even before a relative has died over how the Will should be allocated and issues around how someone is cared for in their final weeks and days.

Mr Etherington said, ‘Disputes over a Will can create long term problems with certain family members who may feel they’re entitled to more than others because of their close relationship to the deceased or the care they gave in their final days. But these feelings are usually subjective and only serve to show the importance of leaving a thorough written Will to ensure their loved-one’s wishes are clear.

'There is a general misconception that making a Will should only be relevant when the person making it is of substantial wealth. But a Will is not just about dividing up money and assets, it’s also important to set out the final wishes of the deceased; this could extend to who should look after surviving children, what form the funeral should take or who should inherit sentimental items of little monetary value.’

He added: ‘It is also important that people make their intentions known to their loved ones before they die to allow everyone to fully understand the thought process behind the Will and save relatives from potential arguments.’

Top Reasons Family's Fallout after a Love One Dies

1. Money

2. Who inherits property/how ownership is divided

3. Who pays for the funeral

4. Who gets invited to the funeral 

5. Whether to sell a property

6. What music to play at the funeral

7. How the money is best spent

8. Where to host the funeral 

9. The burial method - cremation or burial

10. Where to spread the ashes

11. Other burial arrangements/methods

12. What readings to have at the funeral

13. Who carries the coffin

14. The order in which the hearse is followed

15. Which flowers to have at the funeral.

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Slater and Gordon Lawyers have offices in London, Manchester, Liverpool, Birmingham, Sheffield, Milton Keynes, Bristol, Cambridge, Edinburgh, Cardiff, Halifax, Newcastle, Wakefield & meeting rooms in Bramhall, Cheshire.

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