Our Family Law Solicitors can help with all Child Law issues including separation. When a relationship breaks down and there are children involved, we know that both parents will want to work towards meeting the best interests of the children when arranging family life after the separation.
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When parents separate, the first concern is almost always the arrangements for their children. Issues that must be tackled include how the children are told about their parents’ separation and how they are best supported through it. There is then the question of how a child’s time will be divided between the parents once they have established separate households.
Arrangements for the children can be one of the most difficult and emotional issues for separating parents. Consequentially, the same arrangements are frequently the source of more serious and profound disagreements. Mental Health Professionals (and common sense) tell us that parental separation is a confusing and distressing time for a child. It's crucial, when addressing arrangements for the future, that everything possible is done to minimise the stress and anxiety generated. This helps the adults and more importantly it helps the children.
Not all parents can agree all aspects of their child’s upbringing. Some need help, either generally or in relation to a particular issue. Courts now actively require parents to consider alternative methods of resolving disputes about their children before applying for Court Orders for Children.
We sometimes find that decisions made by a Judge are not really to the liking of either parent. This is one of the risks of litigation. Parents who can agree arrangements outside of the Court process retain control. They can tailor outcomes more to their family’s needs, and reaching an agreement can also send an important message to children that both parents support the new arrangements.
There are a number of alternatives to Court proceedings to settle disputes about children. The most popular are as follows:
There are many resources providing support and practical guidance to parents going through separation. These can help whether accessed instead of, or in parallel with, legal advice or Court proceedings:
Our Legal Advice Guide to Children and Separation which you can download and print.
Parenting Plans - CAFCASS produce a comprehensive parenting plan booklet which provides guidance on agreeing some or all arrangements affecting the children of separated parents.
Parenting after Parting Sessions. Various providers offer Parenting after Parting sessions which offer practical solutions on co-parenting following a separation. Many parents who attend these sessions report being struck by the information provided about the huge emotional damage done to children through parents engaged in bitter and long-running disputes about them. We can offer details of groups, charities and organisations offering Parenting after Parting sessions.
Online Resources. There are many websites dedicated to helping parents and children through a separation. Useful sites include:
Non-Legal Input. We have close links with other professionals that work with children, and particularly children whose parents are separated or going through the separation process. Different families will have different needs, but some of the professionals with whom we regularly work include Therapists, Counsellors, Child and Adolescent Psychiatrists, and Educational Psychiatrists.
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